You’ll have some total a**holes and just when you think it can’t possibly get any worse, you’ll meet an even bigger a**hole. But if you hold out long enough, weed through the sh*t — and there’s a lot of it out there — you’ll find a guy worth dating who is totally deserving of you and he’ll make you feel things that no other man has ever made you feel.
I also realize that sometimes help can be hard to find. The always excellent Captain Awkward has a great post about where you can find low-cost mental health care. There are apps that will connect you with therapists and counselors who can work with you through chats or Skype. It simply means that you’re not sitting around all day and letting your body fall to pieces. You’re making a point of taking care of yourself and reaping the rewards.
We’ll be talking about mindsets, lifestyle changes and personal development that will help you become your best, most authentic self. Guys raging about how unfair it is that stuck-up hoes will spread their legs for everybody but them, a nice guy who’s just been pushed to the edge.
These are the changes that will turbo-charge you for the new year… Sometime’s the hate’s directed at women, sometimes at the guys they’re fucking, sometimes at people like me for “enabling” them or not demanding that sluts quit slutting around and fuck these guys who’re so clearly in need. But let me ask you something: how’s all that working out for ya? That anger – whether it’s directed inward or outward – seeps into everything you do.
Sometimes it’s depressed resignation or shame turned inwards. You feel like you’ve been driven to this by the vagaries of life. If you’re carrying around a lot of anger at being single, then you need to learn to offload it.
Guys who are so dejected by the idea of dating that seeing happy couples makes them upset and sends them into a depression spiral. If being single is causing you to collapse inward like a singularity of self-loathing, then it’s time to learn to cope and break the cycle.Often times busy careers demand more of their time than ever which can cut into time spent with their children and or pursuing a productive and meaningful social and love life.